What A Man!

Michael O’Keeffe in Sunday’s Daily News devoted the first part of his column to a real man, Mr. Paul Tagliabue with the headline, “Tags Tackles Homophobia.”
The NFL certainly has no shortage of homophobic meatheads – yeah, Jeremy Shockey we’re talking about you – so The Score was delighted to learn that the guy who actually runs the league pays more than lip service to high falutin’ concepts like civil rights.
Commissioner Paul Tagliabue and his wife Chandler were honored last week by the New York chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays for their support of PFLAG’s Stay Close program.
The Tagliabues have been significant financial supporters of the program,a series of print ads intended to promote tolerance that features celebrities … and their gay relatives. [New Yorkers were treated to them in the subways. Ben Affleck and his gay cousin Jason was among the most endearing.]

Tagliabue’s 36 year old son Drew is openly gay; he’s also a co-founder of the Stay Close program. But Tagliabue wasn’t honored just because of nepotism and deep pockets. According to OutSports.com, the commish spoke from the heart about his love for his son and Drew’s partner, Mark Jones, at PFLAG’s annual dinner at Tribeca Rooftop. Chandler Tagliabue, meanwhile expressed her distaste for the nation’s self-appointed guardians of “family values.”
Outsports.com’s Cyd Zeigler says that in some ways, the NFL is progressive about gay issues. League policy explicitly forbids discrimination based on sexual orientation, and the commissioner has enlisted his son to participate in sensitivity training. New England Patriots owner Bob Kraft also attended the dinner – and even kicked in $5,000 to help with the event’s expenses.
But Zeigler says the NFL and its Players Association aren’t completely gay friendly. They do not offer same sex benefits to employees, and the league has dragged its feet when knuckle-draggers like Shockey, Matt Millen and Terrell Owens made homophobic statements.

“Still,” Zeigler writes, “it’s good to know that someone who is sensitive to gay rights issues is leading the charge of America’s most successful and most hyper-masculinized sports organization.



NFL Commissioner Honored with Gay Son
By Cyd Zeigler jr.Outsports.com
Correction: We earlier reported that the NFL does not offer same-sex domestic partner benefits. According to NFL spokesman Greg Aiello, "the NFL office offers same-sex domestic partner benefits," though most individual teams do not. Outsports regrets the error.
Updated October 14, 2005, 6:30pm
NFL Commissioner Paul Tagliabue and his wife, Chandler, were honored Monday night by the New York chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays with the PFLAG 2005 Stay Close Individual Leadership Award. Tagliabue had given a sizable donation to PFLAG for the campaign. Tagliabue's son, Drew, is openly gay.
Paul Tagliabue and his family have been strong supporters of PFLAG's Stay Close campaign since its inception, according to the program's co-founder, Suzanne Ramos. The program consists of print advertisements featuring famous people and their gay relatives. Featured pairs include Cyndi Lauper and her sister, Elen; Ben Affleck and his cousin Jason; and at Monday's event, PFLAG unveiled the latest ad: Rosario Dawson & her gay uncle, Frank. Drew Tagliabue is also a co-founder of the campaign.
Ramos said that PFLAG is now actively pursuing athletes to feature with their gay relatives.
Paul Tagliabue spoke at the dinner about his love for Drew and Drew's partner, Mark Jones. He also discussed the important, positive impact of PFLAG's Stay Close campaign and how he has been struck by the quality and uplifting character of the campaign.
Chandler Tagliabue delivered remarks regarding her love for her children, Drew and Emily, and her distaste for the hijacking of "family values" by a select group in this country.
The group's Annual Dinner, hosted by Queer Eye's Kyan Douglas, was held at the Tribeca Rooftop at 2 Desbrosses Street. Others in attendance at the dinner included Cyndi Lauper (who sang "True Colors"), New England Patriots owner Bob Kraft, former NFL player Esera Tuaolo, and former high school football player Corey Johnson. Kraft is a close friend of the NFL commissioner and he donated $5,000 for the dinner.
Johnson, who came out while the captain of his high school football team in Middleton, Mass., found he had something in common with the Krafts, other than a love of the Patriots; Kraft had been familiar with Johnson's story because of family members who lived in his hometown. In Manhattan on Monday evening, though, it was Johnson giving Kraft directions to a Boston bar to watch the Red Sox play in the NFL offseason.
A graduate of Amherst College in Massachusetts, Drew Tagliabue, 36, is an associate with Russell Reynolds Associates, a global executive search firm. According to the firm's Web site, "With his international business experience, Drew also has expertise in cross-border and cross-cultural recruiting for international clients."
In fact, he's so good at international recruiting that he managed to bring Jones, his partner of over 10 years, to the United States from Australia in 2002.
While it's incredibly positive that the commissioner of the NFL is so supportive of PFLAG, that doesn't necessarily translate to across-the-board gay-positive policies at the NFL.
On the bright side, the NFL does have a non-discrimination policy covering sexual orientation in its employee handbook. The NFL League offices also offer same-sex domestic partner benefits. Paul also has reportedly included Drew in league sensitivity training about gay issues.
However, the NFL Players Association still does not offer same-sex partner benefits, despite the repeated requests by former NFL players Esera Tuaolo and Dave Kopay, who receive NFLPA benefits, that they do. In 2002, when rumors were swirling that New York Mets catcher Mike Piazza was gay, Tagliabue was asked if the NFL was ready for an openly gay player. "That's a baseball question. I'm not comfortable with baseball questions," the Newark (N.J.) Star-Ledger reported Tagliabue saying. And, unlike baseball's actions against John Rocker for the pitcher's anti-gay and racist comments, the NFL has taken no action against players who have made homophobic remarks.
Still, it's good to know that someone who is sensitive to gay-rights issues is leading the charge of America's most successful, and most hyper-masculinized, sports organization.